

Grow in yourself and in your relationships
If your relationship is going in circles
– let’s find new ways together.
Couples counseling & couples coaching
with Oliver Fialova
Here lies my strength
about Oliver
Fialova
Hello, I'm Oliver – 36 years old, from Germany, and since 2025 a proud father of a wonderful daughter.
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I consider myself a masterful survivor.
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I grew up in a home shaped by alcoholism, violence, and divorce.
We moved frequently between countries, and I experienced exclusion, discrimination, and violence firsthand.
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At 18, I was diagnosed with a brain tumor that triggered epilepsy.
I refused treatment back then – afraid I might wake up blind or paralyzed.
And honestly, I didn’t feel like I had much to live for.
For ten years, I lived consciously on the streets – traveling, surviving, meditating, and surrendering to life like a modern-day sadhu.
In 2019, I finally underwent a life-saving brain surgery.
It was a turning point – and the beginning of a deep healing journey.
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These experiences made me highly sensitive to the pain of others
and led me to my life’s calling: helping people heal and reconnect – with themselves and each other.
Today, I work as a couples counselor, certified systemic coach, hypnotherapist, and psychological advisor and workshop facilitator .
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Relational Life Therapy by Terry Real is the most honest and transformative method I’ve ever encountered.
For me, RLT feels like the missing piece of the puzzle – not only for my clients,
but also for the father, partner, and human being I want to become.

Where and how I work
Couples Coaching & Counselling – Online & in Berlin / Eberswalde
I offer tailored couples counselling and relationship coaching to help you take your relationship to a deeper and more fulfilling level – either in person in Berlin or Eberswalde, or conveniently online from wherever you are.
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My work is based on the proven Relational Life Therapy (RLT) approach. This relationship-centered method helps you:
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identify unhelpful patterns,
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break out of stuck dynamics, and
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create more honest, respectful, and loving ways of connecting.
Together, we create space for:
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open and honest communication
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deeper mutual understanding
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a stronger emotional bond
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