
resources
There are so many wonderful resources out there—including books, articles, and podcasts—that it can be difficult to know where to start. I've compiled a list that hopefully helps you find support on the exact topic that interests you.
Books by Terry real
Terry Real, also known as Terrence Real, is a renowned American psychotherapist and author specializing in relationship dynamics, masculinity, and emotional intimacy. His books offer practical insights and tools for individuals and couples to deepen their relationships and
NEW YORK TIMES, WALL STREET JOURNAL, AND USA TODAYBESTSELLER • Stop working on yourself as an individual and start working on your relationship as a couple, with the help of the renowned family therapist and author of The New Rules of Marriage
“This book is a road map for all of us who seek true intimacy.”—GWYNETH PALTROW, founder and CEO of goop
ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR: The Wall Street Journal
A bestseller for over 20 years, I Don't Want to Talk About It is a groundbreaking and hopeful guide to understanding and destigmatizing male depression, essential not only for men who may be suffering but for the people who love them.
This book is a true game-changer for modern relationships. Renowned therapist Terrence Real delivers a powerful message: You’re not crazy – you’re right.
Many women have grown – strong, clear, and self-assured. But in relationships, they often face partners who seem emotionally distant or immature. This book shows you how to deal with that.
With practical tools and clear exercises, Real helps you bring more intimacy, honesty, and aliveness into your relationship – whether you read it alone or with your partner.
What you'll learn:
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How to recognize and express your needs clearly
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How to truly listen and respond openly
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How to set boundaries and stand up for yourself
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How to cultivate appreciation in everyday life
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When to seek professional support
The New Rules of Marriage empowers women to take an active role in shaping their relationships – and shows men how to step up. A bold vision for real partnership in the 21st century.
THE INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER - OVER 3 MILLION COPIES SOLD
'Dr. van der Kolk's masterpiece combines the boundless curiosity of the scientist, the erudition of the scholar, and the passion of the truth teller' Judith Herman, author of Trauma and Recovery
The effects of trauma can be devastating for sufferers, their families and future generations. Here one of the world's experts on traumatic stress offers a bold new paradigm for treatment, moving away from standard talking and drug therapies and towards an alternative approach that heals mind, brain and body.



