AMBITION IS THE FIRST STEP TO SUCCESS
Why I Believe in Real Connection –
My Story of Courage, Closeness and Growth
About Oliver
Hello, I'm Oliver – 36 years old, from Germany, and since 2025 a proud father of a wonderful daughter.
I consider myself a masterful survivor.
I grew up in a home shaped by alcoholism, violence, and divorce.
We moved frequently between countries, and I experienced exclusion, discrimination, and violence firsthand.
At 18, I was diagnosed with a brain tumor that triggered epilepsy.
I refused treatment back then – afraid I might wake up blind or paralyzed.
And honestly, I didn’t feel like I had much to live for.
For ten years, I lived consciously on the streets – traveling, surviving, meditating, and surrendering to life like a modern-day sadhu.
In 2019, I finally underwent a life-saving brain surgery.
It was a turning point – and the beginning of a deep healing journey.
These experiences made me highly sensitive to the pain of others
and led me to my life’s calling: helping people heal and reconnect – with themselves and each other.
Today, I work as a couples counselor, certified systemic coach, hypnotherapist, and psychological advisor and workshop facilitator .
Relational Life Therapy by Terry Real is the most honest and transformative method I’ve ever encountered.
For me, RLT feels like the missing piece of the puzzle – not only for my clients,
but also for the father, partner, and human being I want to become.
Methods & Approaches
I work on the basis of the following methods
Relational Life Therapy (RLT) for Couples and Individuals
Relational Life Therapy (RLT) is a powerful coaching model specifically designed to address the complex dynamics and challenges in intimate relationships.
Our early life experiences and the culture we grow up in have a profound impact on how we relate to intimacy — often limiting our ability to communicate effectively and truly connect in our relationships.
RLT uncovers these ineffective strategies and helps us develop the tools to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships — both with ourselves and with others.
Using the RLT approach, I support couples in strengthening and deepening their connection by applying the core principles of this method to foster lasting, positive change in their partnership.
➡ Learn more: www.relationallife.com
Individual Systemic Coaching – Clarity, Change, Growth
Systemic coaching always sees the individual in the context of their environment – whether professional, family-related, or personal.
Our thoughts, emotions, and decisions are often deeply influenced by the systems we live and move in.
In coaching, we make these dynamics visible in order to develop new perspectives and sustainable solutions for everyday life.
In one-on-one coaching sessions, I support individuals in understanding themselves more deeply, breaking through stuck patterns, and making more conscious decisions.
The focus is on strengthening self-responsibility, gaining clarity, and finding an authentic path forward – always with a view of the bigger picture.
➡ Learn more: www.dgsf.org
Hypnosis as a Path to Inner Clarity and Transformation
Hypnosis is a powerful method for accessing deeper levels of consciousness and activating your inner resources.
In this state of focused attention and deep relaxation, it becomes easier to recognize and gently shift rigid thought and behavior patterns.
Many of the issues that block us in daily life – such as inner restlessness, emotional tension, or limiting habits – can be effectively addressed through hypnosis.
I use hypnosis as part of my coaching work to help people realign, clear inner obstacles, and discover new possibilities for action and change.
The focus is not on treating disorders, but on supporting personal growth, cultivating mental clarity, and restoring emotional balance.
➡ Learn more: www.hypnoseausbildung-seminar.de
Psychosomatic Bodywork – Listening to the Body, Meeting the Soul
Our bodies store experiences that often run deeper than words.
Psychosomatic bodywork is about gently opening this inner space with mindfulness and presence.
Through soft, non-directive touch, a space arises where the body can relax and the nervous system can regulate itself.
Tight muscles – often an expression of suppressed emotions or old protective mechanisms – can begin to release, along with the inner tensions they carry.
This practice invites you to meet yourself on a deep, non-verbal level – beyond performance, function, or goals.
The breath deepens, and inner images or emotions may emerge – without needing to be analyzed or interpreted.
What unfolds is a quiet process of inner contact that is both gentle and profoundly transformative.
➡ Learn more: www.roseninstitute.net/de