​What I specialize in
Couples Counselling and Relationship Coaching
Couples Counselling and Coaching
Recognize and transform recurring relationship patterns
Do you feel stuck in the same arguments over and over again?
Do you try your best, but still find yourselves hurt or misunderstood?
You're not alone – and these repeated patterns aren’t random.
In my couples counselling and relationship coaching, we explore these ingrained dynamics together and work toward lasting change.
Many of these patterns stem from early life experiences – often shaped in childhood or our first attachment relationships. Over time, they become automatic strategies that continue to affect our intimate partnerships without us even noticing.
The good news? These patterns can be changed.
Through compassionate and structured guidance, I help you:
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Identify your patterns
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Understand where they come from
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And consciously transform them
I use a model that doesn’t assign blame, but instead focuses on shared responsibility, clarity, and connection.
Strengthen Your Relationship
With empathy, accountability, and deeper connection
My goal is to support you as a couple in developing new relationship skills – for a more honest, fulfilling, and loving partnership.
Together, we work on:
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Communication that connects rather than separates
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Clear negotiation spaces for your needs and boundaries
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Emotional and physical intimacy
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Taking responsibility instead of falling into blame
You’ll experience a warm, respectful, and honest space – to truly meet each other again.
Currently in Advanced Training in Relational Life Therapy (RLT)
I'm currently completing the certification program in Relational Life Therapy (RLT), developed by renowned couples therapist Terry Real in the US.
As part of this advanced training, I work with couples in real-life sessions that form part of the official practice program.
These sessions allow me to deepen my skills – and already offer you powerful insights and professional guidance at an affordable rate.
If you’d like to be part of this journey, I’d love to support you in a safe and thoughtful setting.
Learn more at www.relationallife.com and www.terryreal.com.
You’ll also find recommended resources and books on my Resources page.
1:1 systemic support
Gain Clarity, Recognize Patterns, Shape Your Own Path
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Maybe this is the first time you’re reaching out for support.
Maybe you’ve already tried other approaches that didn’t take you where you hoped to go.
Or maybe you’re simply sensing: It’s time for something new.
There are many reasons to seek guidance:
. Painful relationship experiences
. Repeating thought patterns
. Challenging life phases
. Career shifts or uncertainty
. Inner restlessness or a lack of direction
- Transitions like breakups, fresh starts, parenthood, or loss
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I’m here to walk beside you – honestly, clearly, systemically.
I don’t see myself as someone who leads the way, but as a companion on equal ground.
Like an honest friend – someone who won’t always agree with you, but will always be present, clear, and kind in their support.
I’ll be here for you – but not always with you.
Sometimes what’s needed is clarity, sometimes gentle confrontation, and sometimes loving distance.
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A Systemic View: Seeing the Whole Picture
In systemic coaching, we look not just at you as an individual, but at the system you’re part of – your relationships, family, work environment, background, and culture.
What’s not working often doesn’t show up where we expect it. That’s why we take a step back to look at the bigger picture – so we can see where real movement is possible.
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A Space for New Perspectives
I offer a safe and open space where you can be seen, reflect, and sort through what’s going on –
whether you’re in the midst of a crisis, looking to realign your life, or ready to grow on a deeper level.
Whether you’re currently single, going through a breakup, navigating the dating world, or seeking to strengthen your social connections –
I walk beside you with clarity and compassion.
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What We Work On Together
In our sessions, we explore:
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Life patterns and imprints that may still be steering you unconsciously
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Strategies that once protected you, but now might be holding you back
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Inner resources that are already within you – ready to be rediscovered
Our Goal:
- To grow your self-awareness
- To open up new possibilities for action
- To help you walk your path with clarity, ease, and inner strength
A new path for you as a man – confident, connected, real.
A New Path for You as a Man
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Confident. Content. Real.
Maybe you’re starting to feel that the old images of masculinity no longer serve you.
That endless self-optimization or just “staying cool” isn’t getting you where you want to be.
Maybe you’re sensing that something deeper is missing:
Connection. Clarity. A real sense of inner strength.
I work with men who are ready to meet themselves honestly –
not to perform better or become “more alpha,”
but to live more truthfully, feel more deeply, and stand in their authentic power.
Becoming the Man You Were Meant to Be
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Together, we explore:
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The inner patterns and beliefs that have kept you small
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How to respond with emotional maturity without shutting down
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How to access your vulnerability as strength
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How to build real relationships – starting with the one you have with yourself
This work isn’t about stereotypes or quick fixes.
It’s about facing who you really are – and reclaiming the parts of you that have been hidden, shamed, or silenced.
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Shadow Work and Tantra – Your Inner Compass
In our sessions, we dive into shadow work – the process of exploring the parts of yourself you've suppressed or denied.
Your anger, fear, need for control, longing, softness, or grief – all of it has wisdom.
When these shadow parts are welcomed and integrated, they become a source of strength, clarity, and deep personal freedom.
I also bring in Tantric principles to reconnect you with your life force, sensuality, and embodied presence.
Tantra isn't about performance – it's about allowing energy, intimacy, and aliveness to return to your body, your relationships, and your everyday experience.
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Through this work, you'll learn to:
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Trust yourself more deeply
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Show up with clarity and presence in dating and intimacy
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Feel more attractive, alive, and grounded
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Grow mentally, emotionally, and spiritually
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Live with more courage, softness, and wholeness
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Now Is Your Time
If you're ready to break old patterns and create something real –
for yourself, your relationships, and your life –
I’m here to walk that path with you.
With clarity, depth, and respect for the man you are – and the man you're becoming.
Intensive
couple retreat
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Two Days. One Relationship. Deep Transformation.
If you're longing for an honest, healing, and powerful reset in your relationship, I invite you to join me for a 1- or 2-day couples coaching intensive –
8 hours per day of focused, transformative work in a space created just for you.
This is not a standard session. It’s a deep dive.
We step away from your daily life and into an intimate, safe container – at a retreat cabin, hotel, or special locationof your choice.
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What to Expect
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In this protected space, we take the time to look clearly and gently at what’s standing between you.
We uncover repeating patterns and outdated strategies – often shaped long ago in childhood – that still play out in your relationship today.
But we don’t stop at insight.
Together, we work toward:
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A new, deeper understanding of each other
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Real tools to support intimacy, communication, and connection in everyday life
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Relational skills that help you grow not just as a couple, but as individuals
I guide you through teachings, practices, and shared reflection – always grounded in the Relational Life Therapy (RLT) model by Terry Real:
clear, direct, and deeply loving.
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Two Days of Deep Work, Real Change
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This immersive format allows for a powerful dynamic to unfold:
When you're fully present for each other – for hours, not just minutes –
change can happen faster, deeper, and with lasting impact.
Throughout the retreat, we explore how to:
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Reconnect through playfulness and presence
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Truly see and hear each other again
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Understand and express needs, boundaries, and desires
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Be with each other in more honest, embodied, and intimate ways
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Reignite the spark of love and safety
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What I Bring to Our Work
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I bring the full depth of my experience in:
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Systemic couples coaching
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Shadow work – transforming hidden emotional patterns
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Tantric wisdom – reconnecting you with your bodies, energy, and emotional presence
Optionally, your retreat may include a guided tantric ritual – a slow, mindful, and respectful invitation to connect with one another in a new, sacred way.
This element is entirely voluntary, always discussed in advance, and only included when both partners give full and clear consent.
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Is This for You?
Even if you're unsure whether your relationship has a future, this intensive retreat can offer clarity, new direction, and a deeper truth about what’s possible for you both.
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Investment: Starting from €2,400
Retreat setting, duration, and travel costs arranged individually.
Get in touch to design your unique couples experience.
